You’ve
approached the girl, she seems into it and now you don’t know how to get a
girls number from her. Suddenly you start to get nervous. Is it because you
don’t know the best approach? Should you try to make her laugh? Just be
straightforward about it?
What’s
the best way to go for it so she’s more likely to say yes? Here’s how to get a
girl’s number the right way!
1.
Don’t ask, Command.
The usual blunder…
Most guys ask for her number. Big
mistake. That shows
a lack of confidence. When
you ask, it presupposes the fact that you aren’t sure if she likes you. It
tells her that you aren’t sure if she actually wants to give you her number.
When you’re being insecure in front of her – that’s going to be a turn-off.
How you’re going to do
it: REPHRASE YOUR
QUESTION INTO A COMMAND
So instead of asking “So…can, I get your number?”
display your confidence and assertiveness. Rephrase it as a
command like “Here, put your number on my phone.” That way, you’ll come off as an Alpha male. Not
showing any signs of weakness and staying in control.
2.
Make it fun and exciting
Try
and get a giggle out of her while you get her number.
SEND A TEXT TO YOURSELF WITH HER PHONE
What I like to do is this: I tell her: “Hey let me see your phone, I’m
going to give you my number.” Then I go
to her SMS app and I send myself a text: “Hey Matt you are so
hot ;)” And sign her name. I’ll just wait a few minutes and
text her “aww thanks you are so sweet” and she will crack up. This is fun, flirty and it
works great.
The
best part about this is she’s very unlikely to object to you putting your
number on her phone. It seems harmless, and she can always just not text you if
she doesn’t want to. But presto! You just got her number through the text.
ROLE PLAY VERSION
Another funny move is to save your number in her phone and just
call your phone so you have her number. “Here I’ll give you my number… and I’ll just call myself so you have
mine”
But actually, pick up the call and use this opportunity to do a
funny role play like: “Oh hey mom? Hey, I just met this
girl she’s kinda cute, but she’s kind of a dork. I might give her a chance
though, we’ll see.”
3.
Go for it like a Boss
If all of this seems too gimmicky or silly for you, here’s how to get a girl’s number like
a boss.
How you’re going to do it: BE THE BOSS
Say something like, “You seem cool. Here, you
can put your number on my phone.” and remember to stand
beside her so you get in more touching. That way, you’re already breaking the
touch barrier even before you get her number.
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So
try that out, man. And remember to be assertive. I already know the
feminists out there are going to give me shit for saying that but I’m sticking
to it. Asking for permission to have her number shows uncertainty and you should
assume that she likes you, unless she communicates otherwise.
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