There are
currently 4 billion single women in the world who are wanting to meet a man, so
if you think there are no fish in the pond, then you are wrong. But what I want to do, is teach you how to
attract the fish that YOU want and make this year the year you can confidently
approach dating and women.
So let’s
learn how to fish!
6) Choose
quality over quantity to avoid dating burnout
The first
thing you need to do is not turn this into a number games, but instead a
quality quest. The more dates you go on, doesn’t mean the closer you are to
finding the one. You can sift through
hundreds of women, but if none of them are what you want then you will just get
dating burnout and choice fatigue.
My advice is
to limit your options to finding women through two ways – 1) through sparking
conversations with women in real life and two by joining only one online dating
site or app.
And here’s
why.
Talking to
women in real life forces you to start identifying and creating opportunities
around you, instead of feeling that there are no good girls out there. Stick
with me because I will tell you how to do this in number 2!
Secondly,
when it comes to online dating sites or apps, going on more than one just means
you are giving yourself too many women to choose from. Truth is if you can’t
find enough dates on just one site, then you are doing it wrong!
Too many
choices blur the lines of what you want and makes it harder to commit to who or
what is in front of you because you are distracted by the fear of missing out
of someone greater.
You aren’t
going to know the full potential of a girl if you are too busy comparing her to
another stranger.
5) Focus on
your strengths not your weaknesses
Just as you
are attracted to a confident woman, women attracted to confidence within a man.
If that is something you have been struggling with then it’s time to start
building more of it into your life daily.
We often
lack confidence because we focus too strongly on our faults or what we don’t
have compared to what other men out there do have.
Stop
thinking that you need to be an alpha male in order to get the girl and start
harnessing what strengths in your characteristics you have that make you stand
out.
I want you
to write a list of all the things you are good at and also what great qualities
you bring to a relationship. If you are unsure then ask your mates or mum! Put
that list somewhere where you can see it every day.
The next
thing I want you to do is make an accomplishment board of all the things you
have achieved that are worth noting. If you become too focused on what you want
to gain instead of what you already have accomplished you can forget your
current value.
Thirdly: If
you know that you have one physical feature or characteristic that really
charms people then enhance that when you go on a date with a girl.
For example:
if you have great smile – then smile more
Beautiful
eyes? Then wear a color that brings them out.
Leadership
skills? Organise a date where you can lead her through a crowded space and come
across as someone in control.
4)Let go of
the ones who rejected you
Alright this
is something we have to deal with. You can’t keep going into a new year
carrying the same crap, as it warps your perspective and blocks the right women
from wanting to invest into you.
Rejection
happens to the best of us, and some of those Hollywood stars you see out there
get rejected just as much as the rest of us normal folk.
The best
thing to do is to see rejection as a redirection. What I like to do, is every
time someone rejects me, I see it as confirmation that they aren’t meant to be
in my life and therefore it means I am not entertaining who I shouldn’t
Delete
photos of exs and old messages of dates that didn’t work out and start clearing
your mind of women who don’t deserve a place in your life!
3) Put some
effort into your dating profile
Ok, you have
to realise that you have one third of a second to impress a woman online. So,
if you haven’t already checked out my other video on Tinder profile tips, then
make sure you do so straight after this video!
Guys just
because there is an abundant of women, doesn’t mean they are all worth your
time. You have to use the right bait to catch the right fish. And I will tell
you right now that if you put more effort into your profile, then you are
likely to get more quality options to choose from.
So, here’s
what I want you to do; I want you to set aside 20 mins to actually sit down and
update your profile so it doesn’t look like every other geezer on there. Select
a few photos and send them to some trusted female friends and ask them which
ones they think work best.
Put some
effort into your bio by talking about who you are and what you are looking for
and make it sound interesting and fun!
If 20 mins
can up your chances of finding the right woman, then my question is why haven’t
you already done it?
If you get
stuck, then look at successful profiles and simply base yours off there’s
without copying word for word! You don’t have to reinvent the wheel, just know
the basics and how to enhance who you already are.
2) Approach
more women in real life
This brings
me back to point number 1. Talk to women in real life but without an
agenda.
What I mean
by this is, often we are scared to talk to a random girl because we think she
will flat out refuse us. But if you make the conversation the goal rather than
the rejection or acceptance of you, then technically you can’t really
fail.
Having a
casual conversation as opposed to straight asking her out, means you have less
chance of rejection and also makes things seem more natural.
Truth is
women love being approached in real life, as long as it is done under the right
circumstances. You can literally accelerate the process of meeting someone and
set yourself apart from the others if you simply take the initiative to open a
conversation with a girl.
If you
struggle with conversation, then I suggest downloading our conversation cheat
sheet, because it will tell you what to say, when and how to say it so that you
can approach a girl confidently.
The link for that is in our bio or click the image on the screen right now .
The second
thing to do is watch my other video “ Here’s How She Wants You To Approach Her”
there is a link down in the description.
1) Learn
more about women
It’s pretty
crazy how many of the comments I read on this channel that say women expect too
much. You guys have standards, right? Well so do we, and instead of getting
angry at women because you haven’t met them , try to understand how we function
.
You have to
realise that there are two people in a relationship, therefore there are two
needs and wants and both are as important as each other . If you want your
ideal woman , then get to understand how she works, what she’s attracted to and
what she also wants.
The more you
take the time to understand women, instead of assuming they all want too much or
are too complicated , the more you have an advantage over other men!
I would
start with actively listen to women and asking them what they want instead of
guessing your way. I would also watch several of our other videos like 7 Signs
a Girl Likes You , How To Flirt With Girls or 5 Things Women Instantly Look
For.
You see if
you know how to fulfil her desires then she is going to want you even more , so
it’s a win win situation.
Give up the
guessing game , that is so 2018 and instead start working smart in love so that
you can accelerate the girl of your dreams into your life .
