Want to meet hotter girls? If
you’re looking to discover how to meet
women, then the “CQC System” will teach you how to
meet women wherever you go! Discover the best places to meet new girls, too. So
you can gain access to the most beautiful women in your city today.
Where and how to meet women…
you’ve come to the right place. And I’m glad you’re here because learning these
skills opens so many doors for you. When you know where to find the girls you desire
and what to say to them to make them yours, you reclaim the power to build the
dating life of your dreams.
No longer will your dating and
social life be left to the mercy of chance, and you’ll never need to be stuck
at home on a Friday night feeling like you’re the only one missing out on the
fun. Instead, you’ll be the center of it all – watching your relationships
flourish as your life fills with more fun and adventure than ever before.
In this article, we’ll start by
covering a simple way to approach and meet girls, known as the CQC
System. After that, you’ll learn the best places to meet the girls
you’re looking for, as well as, how to tailor your approach in those settings.
How to Meet Women Using the
C.Q.C. System
The CQC system is a way to quickly
gain attraction and investment from any beautiful girl you approach. CQC stands
for compliment, qualify, close, and I can’t tell you how many girls
I’ve dated or had one night stands with as a result of using these 3 simple
steps in my game.
Here’s how it works:
Compliment – When
first approaching a girl, give her a compliment on something about her style,
appearance, or vibe. This lets her know immediately what your intentions are,
which makes getting the number easier.
For example, you might say, “Hey, this is super random… But I wanted to come let you know…
You’re absolutely adorable!”
Instead of complimenting her directly, you could also imply the
compliment, like so:
“Listen,
I saw you here and I had to come over and meet you. Hi, I’m [Your
Name]”.
Qualify – Now that you’ve given her a bit of your interest, it’s time to
take a step back and make her prove to you that she’s worthy of your continued
attention.
You
can do this by qualifying her. This will get her to start chasing you, which
increases your value in her eyes and serves to build attraction.
Some
example qualifiers include, “tell me something interesting
about yourself,” or “what’s something you’re passionate about?”
Once
she answers, you can reward her by letting her know you appreciate her answer,
or by relating to the topic with your own experiences.
Then,
you can rinse and repeat the qualification process in order to continue finding
out more about her. A strong mental frame to come from with qualifying is, “You seem like you could be cool, but I’m not too sure about you
yet.” When she detects this vibe
from you, she’ll naturally want to start proving herself to you.
Close – Once she’s investing in the interaction and qualifying herself to
you, you can take the interaction to the next level by closing her on an instant
date. This is when you go together from the place you met to a second
location, such as a coffee or ice cream shop. A simple way to transition into
an instant date is to say something like, “My favorite ice cream shop is right around the corner, I was about
to grab a cone. Come with.”
If she’s unable to go on an instant date for whatever reason, you
can simply set up a date instead and get her phone number.
The CQC system is enough to get you started meeting girls, get you
dates, and even get you laid. That being said, it’s just the tip of the iceberg
as far as attraction techniques go. For more high-level information on
attracting women, check out our article “How
to Talk to Girls & Spark Attraction”
Where to Meet Women
I’ve armed you with the CQC system, which will allow you to
consistently approach and attract women. But just as important is your venue
selection. Let’s go over the four best places to meet women, as well as how you
should tailor your game in each setting for best results.
Places to meet women During The
Daytime
The
daytime provides you with a low-pressure, low-competition environment in which
you and the girls you approach can communicate clearly and effectively. Because
of this, meeting women during the daytime is ideal for practicing your pickup
skills, especially your verbal game.
When
meeting girls during the day, it’s important to give plenty of physical space
at first, since women walking around in the daytime aren’t expecting to be
approached. If you catch her off guard and scare her, you could easily derail
the interaction.
Opening
direct during day game works well because it cuts to the chase in a way that
lets her know what you’re there for, and it makes closing faster and easier
later on.
Since
the daytime, for the most part, is a non-threatening, non-sexual environment,
day game offers the unique opportunity to easily take girls you meet on instant
dates. Definitely, make it a goal to turn each good day game interaction into
an instant date. Who knows? You might end up pulling her home.
Ideal
day game locations include:
The Beach –
Sunny beaches are loaded with beautiful women in bikinis getting their tan. The
thing is that most guys are way too intimidated to approach a girl in a bikini
– so by approaching her, you’ll stand out. Here’s a video of meeting girls at
the beach.
The Park –
I know of a girl that said, “I’d really love a guy to approach me while I am running.” This
was a surprise to me. But yes, if she likes to run, she’d also like to
meet a guy that likes to run. So you runners know what to do…
However, at popular parks, you’ll find women doing all sorts of things. They’re
all fair game.
Shopping Malls –
If you like a girl that dresses nice, then you can be sure she frequents malls.
The best times are Saturday mornings.
The Gym – Hot
women usually work out so find the gym where all the girls attend. Keep in mind
at the gym they are not there to chit chat so keep it short and sweet.
Crowded Coffee Shops – For
some reason, hot women love Starbucks. It’s kind of a trend.
Do you like to read or work on your laptop?
Well, head over to a popular coffee shop, hang out for a couple
hours, sit where all the people pass by, and wait until you see a lady you’d
like to meet. If she’s busy reading or working, make sure to acknowledge
what she’s doing, “Hey, I see you’re reading, but I wanted to come over real
quick and say ‘hi.”
Health Food Store – Do
you buy groceries? Well, she probably does too, especially if she is health
conscious. Try Whole Foods.
The Dog Park –
Have a dog? Then go here. Approaching her will be much easier because you
immediately have something in common.
Cooking Class –
Yup, most cooking classes are FILLED with ONLY women. The best case scenario is
when women outnumber men because they’ll fight over you.
Places To Meet Women At Night
My second recommendation for improving your pickup skills while meeting some
badass chicks is to do night game.
If
day game is gaming on easy mode, the night game is medium to hard. But, the
rewards can be well worth it; some of the hottest girls habitually go to
nighttime venues to drink and have fun, and a lot of them are looking to get
laid. Even better, the more high-pressure, loud, and the intense nature of
night game environments will push you out of your comfort zone, developing your
pickup skills and hardening you as a man.
During
night game, you’ll want to ramp up your energy. Speaking louder and being more animated
with your gestures is a prerequisite for simply being understood in most night
game environments, let alone holding the girl’s attention.
Another
important aspect of a night game is being able to efficiently handle logistics.
This means identifying any obstacles to bringing the girl home – such as her
being with her friends or being the designated driver – and set up a plan in
advance for how you’ll handle those obstacles. You’ll also need to account for
getting her out of the venue and to a second location such as an after-hours
spot or your place, so you can keep the party going.
Ideal
night game locations include:
Fashion Shows – This
might seem obvious, however, you shouldn’t primarily hit on the runway models.
You should focus your attention on the girls in the audience.
There are lots of beautiful women that appreciate fashion and go to observe.
Strike up a conversation after the show ends.
Music Festivals or Concerts –
If you love music, then this is your spot. Large music festivals have TONS of
women and they are all looking to have fun. To win the girl over, focus on
having fun.
Happy Hour/Trivia Night –
This one is for you guys that enjoy adult beverages. Happy hours
in every city are crawling with young women. At happy hour, she’ll typically be
in a group of girls so you can do the standard direct approach.
How To Meet Women Using Social Media & Dating Apps
Social media and dating apps
can be an effective way to meet girls, and having a solid profile shaves off a
lot of effort in terms of both comfort and attraction building. Messaging girls
on social media can be a lot lower pressure than meeting girls in person.
This is a pro and a con,
because, while it lowers the barrier to meeting hot girls, it also fails to
develop the confidence that going out and facing rejection and success in
person can bring. Because of this, I recommend using social media & dating
apps as a supplementary way to meet girls and spend most of your time doing day
game and night game until you’re experiencing consistent results.
Another consideration when it
comes to online dating is that, since girls can’t pick up your vibe over the
internet, they’re more likely to judge you based on your looks alone. This is
good news for classically good looking guys but puts everyone else at a
disadvantage. If you’re not a traditionally good looking guy, you’d better have
some awesome pictures – or just skip online dating and go meet girls in person.
The best way to set yourself up
for success meeting girls on social media and dating apps is to put effort into
taking awesome pictures. Pictures showing you having fun in high-status social
settings or doing cool activities go along way to building attraction. Pictures
of family, pets, or of you volunteering will help her see you as a down to
Earth, well-rounded guy.
How To Meet Women Using Your Social Circle
As you go out more and continue
meeting people, you’ll naturally begin making more friends. Some of these
friends will just be cool guys and girls, while others will have awesome social
networks that you can leverage to your advantage. Try setting up a weekly event
– such as a sushi and sake night or a weekly table at a club – and inviting all
the cool people you’ve been meeting. Have each person bring a friend and watch how
fast your social circle grows.
Social circle game is awesome
because it’s low pressure, can give you access to super hot girls and cool
events over time, and it puts you in control of the situation. Another benefit
of social circle game is that it often takes little or no “game” in order to
pull and close.
Some guys get stuffy once in a
social circle because now they feel the stakes are higher if something awkward
happens. But the reason we build social circles in the first place is to get
the results with girls that we’re after! Just let loose, have fun, and lead the
girls you’re with through a fun and exciting experience that winds up back at
your front door.
Now that you have the CQC
System at your disposal, it’s time to put it into action! Check out some day
game and night game venues in your area and start testing out the techniques.
Remember: the sooner you put the material into action, the sooner you’ll start
seeing results.
